Do you show the world a different you? Are you the type of person who will not go out of the house without any makeup on? What kind of clothes do you wear? Do you dress up differently for where you go so you fit in?
We see those pictures from the Walmart emails and wonder if they are real or not. Do you pay attention to your appearance before the world can see you? Does it really matter to you? Do you care what other think? Or are you just who you are and they can take or leave it!
Since I started blogging I have been working on who I am and what it is that “I like”. Well I will say being a mother and a wife for almost thirty years, my OWN “niche” part has been kind of hard. But, I have sat back and took a good look.
Yes, I will say that I do have two different looks.
Growing up in the country you tend to get dirty often. I knew that when I was home you worn your older clothes and definitely no shoes in the house. Did you want to get that whooping from your dad when he got home? No, Not me. So, I always changed my clothes after school and when I left to go to town. That was how it was. Mom wanted my good clothes to last.
As I grew up and had kids of my own, I was a little more slack with what they got to do. I was always washing their clothes more often anyway. Really dressy clothes did come off, but who wants to stay in them for very long anyway. Not me.
I was the career mom for many years and I dressed up for the corporate world. I got up in the morning, put on my makeup, did my hair and dressed accordingly. It became routine. It can be amazing what you can get done in high heels.
But, as soon as I got home, the clothes were changed and it was back to the comfy clothes. . I like the comfy clothes like sweat pants and ratty old jeans. I have lots of t-shirts and sweatshirts too. It is ingrained in my brain to do so. It’s my transformation.
Does personality change with were you are, or the clothes you have on? How do you see yourself?
Do You See Yourself As Others See You?
Wow, I was kind of surprised to see the answer I got. I don’t see myself that way. Maybe this is good therapy for me. I am looking hard at finding myself and my passion or I should say finding my true self and learning how to share that with others.
I do think that I am positive and I always look at the brighter side of things. I can always come up with a solution to even the most difficult things. I tend to speak the truth and I do mean what I say when I say it.
I get really enthusiastic and excited about ideas and other things and want to share with everyone. I love adventure and travel. I think I have a generous heart, I love sharing and I am always doing things for everybody else.
If you read about my personality traits, they say my honesty can be brutal and I need to learn how to tactfully speak to others. It will also tell you that I take things for granted. I guess that is true and yes, I do take a few unnecessary risks.
Read my post on “Is Your Astrological Sign Reflected in Your Writing”.
One thing I am working on is consistency. I flutter around and always seem to be doing more things at once than I need to, and I always have a to-do list of things I want to get done. I like to be organized and keep piles, just look at my desk.
Principle of Consistency
I like to keep consistent what I think, say and do, and will change to ensure this is so. I will do what I need to do to complete my task the same every day to show others I can be relied upon.
My focus now is ME.
If I find me and transform myself to me, then no matter what happens….THAT will never go away; in any business or family relationship that you have. Learning how to transform yourself into something that is YOU, you will have a greater following and your business will be the most exciting one you have ever known.
HINT: You will instantly lose engagement on your fanpage if it is all focused on your specific company or product. I see a lot of fanpages, and the ones that get the most comments and likes are often the ones you cannot even TELL what company the fanpage owner is in.
I have learned from my mentor … Brand yourself and not the company. And no matter what happens…You’ll be safe…
For me, finding my passion or “niche” has inspired me to help other people realize their passions. Too many people walk around in a Zombie state…. Day in Day out…. Robots doing the same thing over and over again. And if you asked them what their passion is, they would struggle to even answer.
I want to help change that.
So if it’s health and fitness you’re passionate about… or Dogs…. Or Cooking… or Acting… Art or MUSIC or even just being a mother…. I consider it my purpose, to show you how to live that life.
I can show you HOW to turn your passions into something profitable that can actually sustain you financially.
One of the fastest ways to do that is on the INTERNET. Why?
Because you create a global audience, all over the world.
You leverage yourself through Videos and Articles… It doesn’t matter what I am doing, I could be hanging with my husband or kids, walking my dog…reading a book… or even sleeping.
But here we are together, getting to know each other… no matter where you are or what time it is.
If you have a message, a Passion, a purpose that you are ready to tap into… then by all means, Click Here and see how I do it.
“Most importantly though… follow your dreams, where ever they take you… and don’t let the decisions of OTHER PEOPLE deter you from your passion!”
Great words from Our Leaders Toby and Layla