Ultimate understanding



Can you give yourself the ultimate understanding of who you are and where you want to be. And then who you want to talk to!


In the training I was in last night I was to relate to my target market.  The first lesson was to know who I was and how I can relate to others.  The ultimate understanding.




At sunrise everything is luminous but not clear. It is those we live with and love and should know who elude us. You can love completely without complete understanding.

By Norman Maclean



Do you really know who you are and who you are talking to? 


OK So, you write a blog.  It is a subject that seems of interest to you.  You put in great value, pass along good content.  But who is going to read it?


Who is your audience? Mystery


Does it really matter?  Did you post it to get feedback or just state a purpose?


What is the ultimate understanding?


Are you looking for a large audience or will you settle for just one person?  The world is full of individuals of all sorts.  Yes, there are even people that think like you do.


If you have read some of my recent posts I have a lot on communication and talking to strangers.  But your audience is not all strangers.  The Ultimate understanding of who they are and who you want them to be is important.  


I want you to take a good look at yourself?  Really look.  What do you see?



Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses.

By Ann Landers


You are a person, from somewhere, around a certain age, with a certain income; you have a marital status, a gender, you speak a certain language or two, and you have a goal.


That can be your Ultimate Understanding!


That is who you are!


Now that you know who you are; let’s get to know who you are talking to.  Most likely your audience is something like you.  Remember I said the world is made up of many individuals. Yet, there are only so many personality traits.  


This post is a great rendition of what you can think about yourself. Have a read:





“Yesterday is old news, the future is wide open. Your future is being created with every expectation, thought, action and emotion you are engaging in right now.


Just stop and become present with yourself. “



Are you tired of where you are at?  


Do you want to change?


Do you have a dream?

Is there something inside of you that you just want to come out but don’t really know what it is?




Lives have been altered in fundamental ways, and later, after they acquire a more complete understanding of what goals are actually attainable, many are left facing a lot of pain and frustration. And yet, there’s no culture of complaint.

By Gary Trudeau


What is you Ultimate Understanding of who you are and what you want!

If you need that nudge or avenue to start then check this out and give yourself permission to become the unknown and find your ultimate understanding.

Capture your audience and show them exactly who you are.



Related posts:

 Open Wide and You Will Get Eaten, Is Your Language Killing You

How I Included Reading in Creating My Dream Life

Learning How To Talk and Gaining Trust With Others.


Communication Shortcuts to Talk To Them Like a Pro


6 thoughts on “Ultimate Understand of Who You Are and Who You Talk To

  1. Thanks Sandy for this timely message, as I was using a technique for me to reconnect myself back to why I’m doing this and why am I not really receiving the full results I want, as I’ve had some success, but not all that I want and desire for my business, so back to basics and this is apart of that.

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